This is the final image:
This image was a little too saturated for the look I was trying to create right out of the camera.
funny tutorial about what NOT to do with this vignetting option in Lr!
The first thing I did was to run my Love Stands Still Soft Matte Preset in Lr:
Then I did some brush work. I painted some saturation on the lips and some clarity on the eye lashes using the adjustment brush in Lr.
I added a wee bit of white vignette to smooth out the sun-washed areas by using the Post Crop Vignetting under "Effects" in Lr.
I then brought the image into Snap Art 3 and added an oil painting effect:
Then I brought it back into Lr and warmed it up just a tiny bit, added a bit more contrast, and exported the file.